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Marriage Standards

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STEP ONE: Identify the Principle(s) to be Taught

First determine the principles to be taught in your lessons so you'll have a clear focus. Determine the principles by reading the objective found at the beginning of each lesson and the section headings. Look for keywords that show what the principles will be taught.

Now read the scriptures associated with your lesson, noting how they relate to the principles you noticed earlier. Don't skip the scriptures!

You may download and read YW Manual 3, Lesson 36 : Marriage Standards directly from LDS.org.

STEP TWO: Determine the Needs of your Students

Prayerfully consider the needs of each invidual in your class. You may ask yourself:

  • How can the principles in Marriage Standards be taught effectively to the young women in my class?
  • What does [insert student's name] need to know about these principles?
  • How will this lesson help [insert student's name] with the problems she is facing?

STEP THREE: Locate Resources

In addition to the lesson manual, you have access to Church Magazines like the New Era, Ensign, Scriptures to help you plan.

New Era Resource Guide Materials

The Resource Guide is published by the Church in the Conference editions of the Ensign and has information to supplement LDS Young Women lessons. You may find lists of questions, links to articles, additional scripture references, or Personal Progress ideas. Beside each will be instructions on using them in conjunction with a lesson. Following are the Resource Guide materials for this lesson.

Gordon B. Hinckley, How Can I Become the Woman of Whom I Dream? Liahona, July 2001, 112; Ensign, May 2001, 93. Consider adding ideas from this article to the We Must Remain True to Righteous Standards section of the lesson.

Special Issue: Dating and Temple Marriage, Liahona and New Era, Oct. 2004. Review this issue for ideas to supplement the lesson.

Personal Progress, Individual Worth Value Experiences, no. 2.

STEP FOUR: Prepare Spiritually

Prepare youself spiritually for your lesson by praying for the students in your class. When seeking help from Heavenly Father in particularly difficult situations, you may fast or attend the temple for additional inspiration. The LDS Young Women's Teaching Guidebook also suggests leaders should make efforts to mend relationships or repent of misdeeds to help yourself get in the right frame of mind for gospel teaching. You should be obey the commandments and read your scriptures daily to help you prepare to receive inspiration whenever it may come.

Elder Richard G Scott has said, "Will you pray for guidance in how to have truth sink deeply into the minds and hearts of your [young women] so as to be used throughout life?"

And don't forget the importance of your example: "During youth activities, your example is your most powerful teaching tool. You teach young people through your actions, your casual conversation about others, your solutions to problems, the language you use, and the way you extend yourself to others." (Teaching, No Greater Call)

STEP FIVE: Engage

Now that you have a good feel for how you will teach your lesson, it's time to find ways to make the lesson engaging for your students. Some questions you may ask include:

  • What personal experiences have I had regarding the principles in this lesson that I could appropriately share with my class?
  • What thought-provoking questions will I ask?
  • What methods will I use?

You may also choose to supplement your lesson with some of the following teaching methods, including the products, handouts, clipart, and object lessons listed below:

Printable Handouts for this lesson

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Printable documents can be found (when available) in the printable handouts section above.

    10 Virtues of a Righteous Daughter of God 10 Virtues of a Righteous Daughter of God

    *****If you printed this document before Jan 31, 2005, you got a file with Chastity misspelled! The problem is fixed now, so please reprint. Thanks for letting me know about the spelling error, Chris! ***** This document lists the 10 virtues described by Elder Faust as those of a righteous daughter of God: 1.

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    10 Virtues of a Righteous Daughter of God 10 Virtues of a Righteous Daughter of God

    *****If you printed this document before Jan 31, 2005, you got a file with Chastity misspelled! The problem is fixed now, so please reprint. Thanks for letting me know about the spelling error, Chris! ***** This document lists the 10 virtues described by Elder Faust as those of a righteous daughter of God: 1.

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    Temple Marriage Poster Temple Marriage Poster

    This beautiful poster was submitted by Sister Edwards. It has a night picture of the Bountiful Temple and the quote by President Kimball from Young Women Manual 3 Lesson 36.

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    Temple Marriage Preparation Handout Temple Marriage Preparation Handout

    This window-frame style handout was submitted by Sister Edwards. It has a beautiful poem from the New Era by Valarie Hansen about a young girl daydreaming about the man she wants to marry and how she can prepare.

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    RegrettiOs RegrettiOs

    RegrettiOs: No virtue added! This cute visual aid was submitted by Diane G. Glue the labels to a tomato sauce can.

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    Brownies with a Difference Brownies with a Difference

    Tawna C. submitted this popular story to teach the importance of being selective about what we allow in our media.

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    Virtue Business Cards Virtue Business Cards

    Tawny C. created this handout that has the 2007 mutual theme on it.

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    Virtue - Color Virtue - Color

    This is one in a series of the values, with stitch detailing. These are also available in black and white without the Value Girl. Click on personal progress below to find them all.

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    Virtue - Color Virtue - Color

    This is one in a series of the values, with stitch detailing. These are also available in black and white without the Value Girl. Click on personal progress below to find them all.

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    Virtue - Black and White Virtue - Black and White

    This is one in a series of the values, with stitch detailing. These are also available in black and white without the Value Girl. Click on personal progress below to find them all.

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    Virtue - Black and White Virtue - Black and White

    This is one in a series of the values, with stitch detailing. These are also available in black and white without the Value Girl. Click on personal progress below to find them all.

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    Virtue - stitch lettering Virtue - stitch lettering

    This is one in a series of the values, with stitch detailing. These are also available in black and white or with the Value Girl. Click on personal progress below to find them all.

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    Virtue - stitch black and white Virtue - stitch black and white

    This is one in a series of the values, with stitch detailing. These are also available in color or with the Value Girl. Click on personal progress below to find them all.

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    Draper Temple at Night Draper Temple at Night

    This is a photo I took of the Draper Utah LDS Temple just before it was dedicated. The view is from up the street above the temple.

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    Virtue Poster

    Nicole K. created this posted for the new young women's value, virtue.

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    YW Elements: Virtue Flower YW Elements: Virtue Flower

    I created this flower based on a freebie I found at Shabby Princess Scrapbooking.

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    YW Elements: Value Flowers on Ribbon YW Elements: Value Flowers on Ribbon

    I created this element based on a freebie I found at Shabby Princess Scrapbooking.

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    YW Elements: Value Flowers on Ribbon with Transparency YW Elements: Value Flowers on Ribbon with Transparency

    I created this flower based on a freebie I found at Shabby Princess Scrapbooking.

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    Virtue Banner 1 Virtue Banner 1

    This image is from youth.lds.org. It features some Young Women and a leader in San Diego raising their gold-colored banner of Virtue.

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    Virtue Banner without Text Virtue Banner without Text

    This image is from youth.lds.org. It features some Young Women and a leader in San Diego California raising their gold-colored banner of Virtue.

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    YW Temple Value Element - Virtue YW Temple Value Element - Virtue

    This is based on the Inspire Logo I created for another project. I got "inspired" myself and realized that nearly all of the YW values have the letter 'i' in them. Those that don't have letter 'i' were easy to implement, too. I hope it reminds leaders and young women that "as we strive the young women values ... we will be prepared to make and keep sacred covenants, receive the ordinances of the temple, and enjoy the blessings of exaltation." Enjoy!

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STEP SIX: Just Do It!

Help your students live the principles taught by encouraging action:

  • What challenge or assignment might I give my class?
  • How could a young woman use a journal or scriptures to strengthen her knowledge of this principle?
  • What is one behavior a young woman could change this week as a result of this lesson?
  • Check the For the Strength of Youth pamphlet index for items you might share.
  • Are there Personal Progress Experiences or Projects that relate to the principles taught in this lesson?

The activity ideas listed below can help you reinforce the principles taught in this lesson at mutual or other activity:

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STEP SEVEN: Testify

What is your personal testimony regarding this principle? Be sure to share it with the students in your class during your lesson. President Thomas S. Monson taught: "You do not need to go to [the Holy Land] to walk where Jesus walked. You need simply to walk through the door of your classroom, walk to the front of your class, and bear your testimony--as did Jesus of old--that God our Heavenly Father lives, that the gospel of Christ is a reality, that is has the answers for the problems which vex our young people."

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